Never retaliate when people say unkind things about you.   Pay them back with a blessing.

“Now finally, all of you should be like-minded and sympathetic, should love believers, and be compassionate and humble, not paying back evil for evil or insult for insult but, on the contrary, giving a blessing, since you were called for this, so that you can inherit a blessing.”  —1 Peter 3:8-9 HCSB

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