Whenever a person attempts to relay a personal matter using impersonal methods, they're actually expressing that they don't respect themseleves or you enough to approach you personally. If they share personal thoughts or feelings with someone else about you, that should only be shared with you...they are revealing that they are not trustworthy, hence if they confide personal information about you to the person they designated as a surrogate to approach you...there's a greater chamce they're discussing more about you with others. #Evonika❤ღ❤